Written By: Susana George
My opinion on this, is that there’s no fucking way possible. There is definitely lust at first sight but not love. When you love someone you fall in love with their personality, their dreams and even how they carry themselves. You start to love them more everyday when you see how much they care for you. You pay attention to all the little things they do to show you that you’re special.
Love takes dedication and trust and slowly the heart reveals itself and walls are broken down.
So tell me this how would you get all that from just the sight of someone? The answer is you can’t. There’s no way in hell you can love someone at first sight because you don’t know them as a person. Love is something special. Love takes dedication and trust and slowly the heart reveals itself and walls are broken down.
Lust on the other hand, can happen immediately . You see features someone has and you get aroused. From their eyes, their smile, their boobs, butt, or how buff they are. Maybe something as simple as their hair color or height. Regardless of what it is that turns you on. Anything with the way a person looks is always lust, never love. It’s very easy to mistake the two.
You must always follow your heart but use your head too. No guys I’m not talking about your second head either. I mean really think what is it about the person that makes you love them? If all that comes to mind are looks, then your in lust. So take a minute to think of your partner or crush. What is it that comes to mind when you think about what you love about them? Now answer me this. . . . . Is it lust or love?